A Child Contact Centre is a neutral, safe place where children can spend time with a parent or family member they do not live with. These centres are especially helpful when: There has been a breakdown in communication between parents There are safeguarding concerns A child has not seen a parent for some time A […]
As the festive season draws to a close and children across the country return to school, January sometimes feels like a natural time for reflection and reorganisation. For separated parents, this seasonal shift can present an important opportunity to review existing child arrangements, address any challenges that may have arisen the previous year, and ensure
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At Vollans Mediation, we put children at the heart of family decision-making. We are proud to support Child Friendly Leeds, an initiative that brings people, organisations and communities together with the shared aim of making Leeds the best city for children and young people to grow up in. Children and young people helped create the
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At Vollans Mediation, our goal is to guide families through separation and divorce in a way that prioritises collaboration and the well-being of everyone involved—especially children. Choosing the right words may seem like a small detail, but in the emotionally charged context of family separation, it makes a significant difference. This is why you won’t
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Co-parenting can be challenging, but it becomes even more complex when your ex-partner decides to relocate, especially if it impacts your children. Whether the move is for a new job, family reasons, or personal choices, it requires careful consideration and decisive action. If you’re asking, “What do I do now?” you’re not alone. This guide
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Are you a grandparent struggling to see your grandchildren after a divorce, separation, or family dispute? You’re not alone. Family mediation can help you find a way forward. It’s often an unexpected and emotional situation that grandparents find themselves in – being cut off from their grandchildren. If this resonates with you, know that you’re
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Going through a separation or divorce can be a stressful and emotional time, especially when children are involved. One of the biggest challenges parents face is figuring out how to co-parent effectively while keeping their children’s needs at the forefront. That’s where a parenting plan comes in. A well-crafted parenting plan can help parents establish
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Ah, Christmas—it’s the time of year filled with twinkling lights, too many mince pies, and more than a little holiday magic. But if you’re co-parenting, especially after a recent separation, the festive season can also come with its fair share of logistical headaches. Who gets the kids on Christmas Eve? How do you keep things
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Understanding parental conflict Parental conflict arises when separated parents have differing ideas, opinions, values, or priorities. While it’s normal for separated parents to disagree, ongoing and unresolved conflict can significantly harm children’s well-being. Harmful conflict can manifest in various forms. It might start with shouting, criticising, blaming, or ignoring each other and can escalate to
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What is Child Inclusive Mediation (CIM)? Child Inclusive Mediation (CIM) is the opportunity for your children to be included in the mediation process. It gives them a voice when you’re discussing arrangements for the future. Above all, CIM is a wellbeing conversation for children, a safe space to speak and process. It’s not a chance
